From the forces to the family home: Pam and Glynn’s fostering journey

As Plymouth comes together to celebrate its proud military history this Armed Forces Day, we’re reminded of the courage, commitment, and community spirit that defines our military families.

Among them are Pam and Glynn, local foster carers whose journey began with a simple suggestion from their teenage son.

Glynn served 18 years in the Artillery as a Commando, rising to the rank of Sergeant. He saw active service in both the Falklands and the First Gulf War, and was even promoted on the field.

But when he realised the toll his deployments were taking on their sons, he decided to take voluntary redundancy.

After leaving the military, Glynn started his own business. Life was settling into a new rhythm when their youngest son, then just 14, spotted an advert about fostering. He handed Pam the phone and said, “You and Dad need to call these people. You can do this.” That moment changed everything.

Now, 18 years later, Pam and Glynn have supported countless children - so many, in fact, they’ve lost count. What they haven’t lost is the connection. “We’re still in touch with many of them,” Pam says with pride.

Their military background has shaped their approach to fostering. “Some of the skills Glynn learned in the military - resilience, patience, listening - have been invaluable,” they explained.

But they didn’t rely on experience alone. “We knew we had to train to be the best we could be to look after traumatised children,” Pam says. “It’s challenging at times, but we’re well supported and trained. And the social side is fantastic, with lots of opportunities to connect with other carers.”

Their message to anyone considering fostering, especially those from the Armed Forces community, is simple: “So many children need loving families to show them the way. Fostering has been a massive part of our lives - and it’s one of the most worthwhile things you can do.”

Pam and Glynn are carers with Foster for Plymouth, Plymouth City Council’s in-house fostering service.

All carers receive a comprehensive package of support including 24/7 support and guidance, generous financial allowances, Council Tax discounts, training and development opportunities, regular social events and peer support.

To be a foster carer, you must be over the age of 21, have a spare room and be genuinely invested in the wellbeing of children and young people.

Foster for Plymouth is sponsoring the pre-school entertainment at this year’s Armed Forces Day and you’ll find the team in their dedicated marquee on the Hoe Promenade.

For families with young children, there’s glitter tattoos (10am to 12pm) and appearances from some very special characters in the afternoon (1pm to 3pm). The team will also be on hand to answer any questions about fostering, and everyone is welcome to come along and say hello.

Find out more about fostering at fosterforplymouth.co.uk.